How to succeed with women, Copeland D., Louis R., 1998.
We were no different than you might be. Our relationships with women were dependent upon two things: luck and the whim of women who happened to be attracted to us. When either of us had sex, it was because we quite literally "got lucky," and a woman decided to have us. We had little choice or power over when we had sex and relationships and what women we had those interactions with. Sex and relationships, it seemed, were a crap-shoot. Perhaps we'd meet someone, perhaps we wouldn't. Needless to say, we got tired of it.
Finally, we decided that we would do whatever it took to find out what worked with women. We wanted to know how to seduce women and more—we wanted to know how to develop relationships with women that would be fulfilling for both us and them.